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Breathe Into Your Stomach To Control Panic

Filed Under (Anxiety, Relaxation, Stress Management, Wellness) by Kevin on 05-09-2008

One of the crucial things to remember while you are in a panic attack is keep breathing. It becomes extremely necessary to breathe in the course of the attack, as you need to regularize oxygen flow into the blood stream as otherwise there is a severe constraint on the efficacy of the blood flow that in turn ensures control on the mind and the body. Controlling anxiety by breathing is a possibility as the mind and the body are kept steady by such mechanism.

In the course of breathing in a panic attack, what is important is to remember that the breathing should go into the stomach and not the chest only. Panic can be stopped from repeating if such processes are maintained. However, the process of breathing into the stomach is difficult for somebody not used to it. This can in a way escalate the panic in the course of the attempts to breathe into the stomach. Thus, there should be a regular practice under normal circumstances to breathe into the stomach. Unless there is this practice under normal conditions, the person will find it hard to breathe into the stomach instead of the chest in the practice of a regular panic attack the next time.

Here are three tips that you might find useful in this regard:

* Lie down on your back. After this, fix one of your hands firmly onto your stomach and the other one lightly onto your stomach. The next time you breathe in, try to take a lot of air inside as this should fill up your stomach, not just your chest. In fact, most o the air should enter the stomach and not the chest. Do not breathe heavily or at a fast rate. In fact, practice slow breathing at not more than 6-8 times per minute. Try to relax all the while, not inviting any unwarranted for stress in course of this exercise.

* If in case the hand exercise is not enough in keeping down your stomach, try and lay some weight on it like a book weighing 4-6 pounds. The book should rise and fall with inhalation and exhalation respectively.

* In case the above two procedures have failed on you then try to walk on all four appendages that you have like a four legged animal. Relax enough in the course of this exercise too. What happens in this case is that since the chest is pressed for space the stomach automatically takes in more air than the chest.

Once you have gained sufficient practice in breathing into your stomach using one of the three procedures described above, you can prolong the period of doing this and go up to 15- 20 minutes at one go. Having accomplished this, you can try to breathe into your stomach in an upright sitting position and standing too. After this, you could extend the exercise regimen to your office hours and when you are driving or walking.

Again, do not over press yourself in the course of any of these suggested exercises. Remember that you should relax totally and you should never compromise when it comes to relaxing.

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Learning To Cope With And Get Rid Of Stress And Panic

Filed Under (Anxiety, Personal Growth, Stress Management) by Kevin on 18-08-2008

Stress and panic seem to come with everyday life for many of us and learning to control and cope with this can mean less time in the doctor’s office being sick. Stress is not something to turn your nose up at because if it is not treated it can lead to serious illnesses and possibly diseases. What happens is when we let our stress build and build and not control it our bodies become more prone to illnesses because prolonged stress leads to a chemical imbalance in the body. Therefore, if left unchecked stress can lead to many more problems than most people have realized.

Now is the time to learn to cope and manage stress before it is too late to stop some sort of illness affecting you for the rest of your life. Unfortunately, stress is a part of everyday life and it can come from many different places. Stress is caused mostly by worrying about something or feeling nervous about something. If you learn to stop worrying and being nervous so much you can stop stress before it gets too bad. It’s human nature to make a big deal out of the little things because in our minds those little things are not just little things to us.

Sometimes things just seem so much worse than they really are and it can be very difficult to cope when things get to be what we would consider “really bad”. Changes are a part of everyday life, which can be a big reason why stress is such a big part of our lives. The thing you need to learn if you have a problem with stress is to cope with the changes in everyday life and not stress over them so much. You need to figure out what is making us worry so much, reduce your bills if your are stressing of your financial situation or change whatever needs to be changed.

You need to consider changing any unhealthy habits you may have that could also be causing you stress. Without making a few good changes in your life you may continue to stress out and panic, which will eventually cause you to be sick when you did not need to be. Once you make the necessary changes to your life to reduce your stress you may notice how much better your life quality is. There are a few questions you can ask yourself to see if you have made positive changes in your life to calm the stress.

1. How is you working environment? Has is become better since you made the changes?
2. How have you been sleeping, have you been getting more sleep since you made the positive changes?
3. Have your eating habits changed? Are you eating more or less that you used to and is this a direct result of the changes you made?
4. How do you dress, do you dress to meet the latest trends or do you dress to suit yourself and your needs?
5. How is your current financial situation? Did it get worse or did it get better after changing your life for the better?
6. Are you having any kind of problems with the law?
7. Do you have a good family life, is your family supportive of you?
8. Do you have friends that you socialize with on a regular basis?

After you have answered all of the questions you should consider what the changes were that you made in your life. If everything in your life seems to be improving, that means that you have probably made all the changes necessary to lead a healthier life. However, there are times when we do not make the right changes to our lives and they are not improving. This is when we need to repeat the cycle and figure out what is make our lives so stressful and make more changes if need be.

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Everyday Stress or Stress as Mental Illness: You Have to Know Before Applying Stress Management Techniques

Filed Under (Anxiety, Personal Growth, Spiritual Growth, Stress Management, Therapy, Wellness) by Kevin on 17-05-2008

Stress is a part of life. All of us have to deal with different kinds of stress on a daily basis. Problems occur, however, when stress is chronic and a person is unable to obtain relief. When this happens, stress can affect us mentally and emotionally. If stress is too overwhelming for too long, a person can feel that they are going under. They may even wonder if they are going crazy. To help you evaluate where you stand with stress, this article will go over the types and symptoms of stress.

Normal symptoms of stress include anger, feelings of helplessness, temporary depression, churning stomach, tense muscles and emotions. Abnormal stress symptoms include suicidal thoughts, ongoing depression, anxiety, mood swings, chronic anger, and phobias amongst others. These psychological symptoms may be written off as mental health issues but they are likely to still be the result of stress and fear.

Different factors can make it hard for people to cope with the same amount of stress. If someone is already coping with illness, then it may be harder to cope with additional stresses. If a personal has insufficient coping skills, limited education and lack of access to support, stress can become overwhelming. Depending on what else is going on in a person’s body and mind, different types of stress management strategies may be appropriate. A proper diagnosis will determine whether some of the stress induced symptoms have a medical or psychological basis.

There are many stress management strategies that are universally helpful, however some methods of coping with stress may actually be harmful for certain psychological conditions. For example, with Multiple Personality Disorder (now termed Disassociate Identities) visualization techniques may cause a problem.

We are all different so it only makes sense that different stress management strategies will have various impacts depending on the person. Ordinary people who are dealing with everyday stresses commonly cope with their stress by avoiding stressors that can be avoided, planning ahead of time (like leaving home fifteen minutes early to avoid traffic jams), preparing (like studying ahead of time for an exam, not just the night before) and making new decisions. For example, if your job is highly stressful, think carefully about your situation and if necessary change jobs. Sometimes, there is nothing you can do to avoid or reduce stress in the situation itself, you have to leave.

However, common stress management techniques will not work for everyone, particularly if a person is suffering from mental illness. For example, there is a story about how a young psychotherapist conducted a class teaching stress management techniques that was open to everyone. Unfortunately, there was no discussion with individuals or taking of personal information beforehand. Everything seemed to be going well and he could see some people visibly relaxing as they did their breathing exercises and began to visualize according to the instructions. The sharp tension that had been in the room gradually lessened and the young psychotherapist was feeling happy with the results. Suddenly, a young woman who had been sitting quietly against the back wall, jumped up and ran out of the room in a panic. The psychotherapist later discovered that she suffered from Dissociate Identities and the process of visualizing other people in different environments was actually a threat to her own identity.

While this is certainly unusual, it can happen so it is important that stress management practices are targeted to individual needs and circumstances. We have a large part to play in this ourselves, but so too do professionals who seek to aid us in coping with the various stressors in our lives.

Yet, the young psychotherapist did not do a bad job. He just didn’t do a thorough one. In this scenario, the young woman was sitting next to an older man who just oozed tension. He had a stressful job and had had a particularly bad day. In his case, the stress reducing activities worked wonders. He released the built up tension in his body, his mind relaxed and he felt calm and peaceful again. The difference between the two examples is that one person was a normal healthy person dealing with an overload of stress whereas the other person was dealing with a psychological illness. For stress management to be effective, we have to know what we are dealing with. We also have to be willing to take the time to discover what stress reduction strategies work best for us.

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Understanding And Overcoming Depression

Filed Under (Anxiety, Depression, Personal Growth, Therapy) by Kevin on 07-04-2008

We have all experienced some level of depression in our lives. This is a normal reaction to various events that occur in life. Changes and losses often have the biggest impact on our lives when it comes to experiencing depression, however, physical illness, and other related issues can also result in this condition. If an individual experiences depression for an extended amount of time, this can become a very serious issue. As a matter of fact, it can result in one’s ability to function appropriately. Here, we will expound on understanding and overcoming depression. If you or someone you know suffers from the complications associated with depression, it is important that you learn as much as possible in order to reach a resolution to this issue.

Depression Symptoms

There are many different symptoms associated with depression. The symptoms that one experiences with depression will be a result of the severity of depression that is experienced. The following symptoms may be reflected:

- A general feeling of sadness
- Losing interest in things that once seemed pleasurable
- Difficulty in concentration
- Complications in sleep cycles
- Having problems and complications with sex drive
- Physical problems
- Problems in making decisions
- Feeling as if dying would be an ideal way out of a bad situation
- General lack of energy

The symptoms of depression may be mild to severe. It depends on the individual that experiences them, as well as the degree in which depression is experienced.

Warning Signs of Depression

There are many situations in which depression can result in a dangerous type situation. If these signs occur, it is important to take them seriously. Basically, if an individual openly confesses that they have considered suicide, they start to display behavior that is deemed aggressive, or they begin to act in an impulsive manner – it may be time to seek professional treatment. In addition to these warning signs, if an individual actively discusses hurting another individual, or engages in activities that are harmful to themselves – such as self-mutilation and other activities, this is definitely a warning sign of depression.

Treatment for Depression

There are many different treatments for depression. One treatment includes prescription drugs that can be obtained by visiting a physician. One may also undergo counseling in a one on one setting as well as a group session. There are also other ways that you can successfully recover from depression. Here, I will provide some helpful tips that you can use in order to overcome depression and feel better about life in general:

1. Be certain that your diet consists of healthy foods.

2. It is important that you ensure that you get at least three to four hours of exercise each week.

3. Take the time to ensure that you get plenty of sleep. An average of seven to eight hours a night is considered to be appropriate.

4. You should ensure that you make certain that you involve yourself in various types of activities that draw your attention. This will help to ensure that your mind is distracted.

Conclusion

Depression is a complicated issue in which many suffer. If you or someone that you know is experiencing feelings of despair, sadness, and a general lack of hope, there are ways to overcome these issues. The ideas previously mentioned can prove to be extremely beneficial.

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Understanding Public Performance Anxiety

Filed Under (Anxiety, Personal Growth, Self Confidence) by Kevin on 18-03-2008

Many individuals experience public performance anxiety. This is a relatively common issue that people everywhere seek resolution to. The pressure of having to experience a situation in which you must face a stranger, or a large group of people can be tremendous. Public performance anxiety can happen to any person, at any time. It can even occur with an individual who has done well in the past with this type of performance. Individuals who work in executive corporations may often experience this complication during meetings and training sessions. Those that have a unique talent like singing and playing an instrument may experience this anxiety. Facing a potential employer or school may also cause this to occur. Here, you will be introduced to this form of anxiety and gain an understanding of why it occurs.

The first thing that you should know and understand is that each of us reacts to stress differently. If we are in our “comfort zone”, we are more likely to be more confident when it comes to public performances. If we are out of our “comfort zone”, it is quite likely that the stress of the performance will elevate to the level of extreme stress. Individuals who experience this stress will likely experience high levels of anxiety that may affect them on a mental and physical level. It is not uncommon for an individual to experience sweating, shaking, and even forget what it is that they are suppose to do or say! This is why it is very important to ensure that if you have this issue, you work diligently to find your “comfort zone” in each performance that you engage in.

In addition to “comfort zones”, the overall confidence of an individual is extremely important. Most of us are not simply “born” with high levels of confidence, it must be learned. You should always work to improve your confidence levels. When doing so, you are allowing yourself to experience success in many different situations. Our personality traits are quite relevant when it comes to successfully overcoming public performance anxiety. If we are shy and timid and lack the basic essentials of confidence, we are sure to experience high levels of stress when it comes to performing in front of strangers, or groups of people. If we are outgoing, bubbly, energetic and have a large load of confidence, being able to perform in front of strangers and large groups of people will prove to be just as easy as talking to our best friend!

Relaxation techniques are an important consideration when it comes to overcoming public performance anxiety. By learning to calm your mind and body down prior to a performance, you are more apt to experience success. If you allow yourself to get worked up and extremely stressed, you may find that you quickly experience failure in your endeavors. Each relaxation technique that you use should start with the relatively easy step of breathing slowly and maintaining your composure. This will help soothe both the mind and the body. When you are nervous, it is not uncommon to breathe sporadically. This can result in the body not receiving the proper amount of oxygen that it requires. In addition to this, it can set off a whole spill of complications, like lack of concentration, problems in memory, sweating, and even shaking uncontrollably!

In addition to focusing on breathing, it is important to ensure that you understand when you experience public performance anxiety that the muscles in the body tense up. This is a direct result of the body trying to protect itself from what it believes to be an impending threat. You should convince your body and mind that this is not a threat. Simply change your perspective and outlook on the situation. The opportunity to perform in a public situation is an opportunity in itself. The sooner you realize this, the easier it will be to relax and succeed in your performance. Public performance anxiety is a very common issue, which is not difficult to overcome. By following the advice listed here, you are sure to overcome this obstacle with success!

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